Online dating has become the norm when it comes to 21st century dating. Everybody is doing it, so why is it still so hard to find someone using dating sites?
Almost every aspect of our life has been made easier since the Internet became mainstream. Online dating made unpleasant aspects of dating such as initializing conversations and rejections very easy, in fact too easy. It’s so easy to create made up profiles, post fake pictures, it’s almost inviting alter egos to become “real” and start wasting the time of honest people.
Screening process is a real pain point, when it comes to online dating services.
Dating sites are overwhelmed with fake profiles, baits and shills. Some are alter egos of bored people, some are marketing tools, intended to sell you something.
Why big dating sites don’t screen their users more effectively? Although some services have started to head in this direction most them are the wild wild west of mingling.
The inconvenient truth is that effective screening contradicts some of the online dating services market strategies. Big online dating sites behave like big parties, if you have enough people then more people will try to get in and get their match. Better screening mechanisms mean less volume, traffic and hype which impact their bottom line.
So, how do we weed out the fakes, and make our online experiences more trustworthy?
An interesting yet controversial service (well I’m a fan…) is: http://dontdatehimgirl.com , assuming you have a name, or alias of a guy you can ran a check to see if he was flagged by disgruntled exes. While effective at some instances many find the concept invasive. Googeling a name, as trivial as it sounds, can also surface some interesting results. The basic premise behind these methods is that you have a real name, and thus their weakness.
Our approach is reverse: you can present your verified credentials at the very beginning of a dialogue. We provide you with a secure platform to prove what you are without exposing who you are. You can ask your potential date to do the same. Discovering basic features about your potential date such as recent photo, name, marital status will save you a lot of time and potentially unpleasant situations.
We can’t guarantee you’ll immediately find your prince, but at least you will not waste your time on frogs.